I'll start off by telling you guys a story that happened around a week a go when I went to visit Wei Loon at Nagaria during his work hour to have dinner ( I had Thai fried rice by the way).
During dinner of course Wei Loon came by and we chatted because there really wasn't any other customer other than me and another small family seated quite far from where I was.
So we talked and out of the sudden our conversation went into the gf/bf territory. So he asked me why I didn't get one since I've been having a few new friends recently (Don't ask who!) and suggested I go after a particular one. So the part where I rebutted him and told him the reasons why goes something like this :
Wei Loon : Hey why don't you go get a gf.. go kau (court) her lar.
Me : Cannot lar. ( Don't have intention also )
Wei Loon : Why cannot? Ask her out lar or something. I support you.
Me : Wanna kau with wat.... I what also dont have, hamik pun bo.
Wei Loon : No need one, got true heart can adi one mar, girls see heart one.
Me : Aiyo....cannot say like that lar, i tell u one situation. Lets say I wanna ask the girl out then i tell the girl " Hey wanna go out today to xxxxx?" then the girl say "Sure!." then I say " I come fetch u with motorcycle ok? I come at 1 noon ok??" then ar the girl would have this reaction ( "-_- ) sure think "whoa siau! one o'clock ar! u think i very fair ar!.. pien tai eh this guy" and would proceed to tell me out of the sudden "hey i just thought of something to do.. boh eng lar.. sorry"
Wei Loon (ROFL) : HAHAH ... where got so cham ar!
Me : Sigh... not easy leh.. must have a lot of things. That one i told u just one reason leh. Think of motorcycle in TPG. When fetch the girl to come out dating burning hot like hell sweat until like pig and skin hurt, go back that time leh in the evening around 5 p.m. thunderstorm! kena soak like washing machine Whoa.. tua ki lor!! Double whammy in one day!! hahahah .. tiuk pa ji lor! LOL! Wanna go kau lui need to have car lor.. cannot lar moto. Bo ngam leh.
Wei Loon : Not all girls like that mar...
Me : I know I know.. Wa beng pek eh... but then.. sigh
Hmm... so that was how I told him my reason ( one of ) ... I WOULD LIKE TO STATE HERE THAT I SINCERELY BELIEVE MOST GIRLS ARE NOT MATERIALISTIC!!!!!! but i cant help but think of the situation above.. and the hell weather that is TPG.... and not to mention the super uncomfortable helmets that would mess up the best hair do and the difficulty and unbearable thing of riding on a motorcycle dressing up nicely. I am no way referring that girls are materialistic. What i said was just to add humour to the situation at that moment. I believe most girls wont mind at all. But i just cant help thinking about the situation above and countless other situations. And i cant bear the girl to suffer along. True nowadays the girl can come out with transport of her own one mar, but need how many times come out alone leh.... go back alone if at night also worried leh.
As i said once.. girlfriends should be pampered not brought along to suffer. I never thought about these things last time when i was young ( I'm still young ) but nowadays I kinda pause to think about it. Sometimes i imagine.. would i be able to bear looking at a gf to "enjoy" the weather with me like that and also go out no money eat out. Valentine day no money buy present.. B'day no money buy nice thing... Anniversay no money go dinner nice nice. Well like my pal Wei Loon and the gf pointed out later.. these things are trivial. But i think for me it may mean a bit more lo...since i dont know how the girl would feel mar ( and girls .. you ppl really are... hard to know how u feel!!! ). And i dont want the girl to suffer along.
Well after saying all this... Wei Loon say "ur caring lor.. gf sure lucky one" and some after reading all this may say "wah.. very caring and thoughtfull wor".......................................... but I'm actually not that caring and thoughtfull at all, not my gf donno nia.. if ur my gf can cry one lorr... aHAHAHAHA. I got even more bad things.
Just something to share in this blog and those of you who ask me why I still dont have a gf and wonder why? Now you know... =). And also I'm kinda pessimistic and plain and not that talkative at all... not much girls like that i think. UNLESS the girl come and ask me instead lar!! i dont mind that one kakakakakak!!! hey hey... just joking dont anyone get angry at this.
I firmly believe a lot of girls out there who would sacrifice a lot to be with their loved ones....
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hello you. so we have to wait till you buy a car before you finally get a gf? =P
DOnno ar....see how lor....
*long phiak*..1st time i hear a guy SO CONCERN about the motorbike+hot weather+hair do+helmet. wahhaha..u really ah, 'boh su choe' ah? just give it a try la, at least u'll know whether your assumptions are correct or not mah. if u sked the helmet will spoil her hair, think about going out on bicycle. that's really cool u know...cycling around lake garden..windy and nice scenery too..hehe..if sked hot, take umbrella lo, or buy those cap with a mini-umbrella attach on it. Wahahaha...
Wahahaha shin sar.. u forgot something important about tpg leh.. thunderstorm can happen within 5 mins lor!! then wat to do leh?? really tiau kang(river) liao lor that time haha.
Somemore the motorcycle thingie is just one of the many leh... just one example onli.. got a lot more worrisome things i didnt mention ^_^
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