Speaking about being single when everyone around you isn't could be an irritating scene. Just when you want to hang out with your close friends, they are either too busy dating, or that they would have to bring their other half along. It sorts of kills joy. You have to watch what you say, be on best behaviour, etc. Basically, you just cannot be yourself 100%.
Frankly, when you decide to have a heart to heart talk with 'outsiders' lurking around, it isn't fun anymore. It's no more the same now because the group has expanded. Sometimes, you may end up as the towering, brightest lamp-post. It's worse when your friends start to make out or get all too lovey-dovey with their partner. Heck, you don't want to witness all their vows of love. And you are not interested in soft porn either. Sometimes, it makes you sick being the tiang lampu.
But, seriously, you have to accept the fact that your friends will not wait for you. There are other people whom they are committed to now and it's not about you anymore. But could those lovebirds spare some time for their friends because life ain't about both of you either?!
Frankly, when you decide to have a heart to heart talk with 'outsiders' lurking around, it isn't fun anymore. It's no more the same now because the group has expanded. Sometimes, you may end up as the towering, brightest lamp-post. It's worse when your friends start to make out or get all too lovey-dovey with their partner. Heck, you don't want to witness all their vows of love. And you are not interested in soft porn either. Sometimes, it makes you sick being the tiang lampu.
But, seriously, you have to accept the fact that your friends will not wait for you. There are other people whom they are committed to now and it's not about you anymore. But could those lovebirds spare some time for their friends because life ain't about both of you either?!
1 comment:
AHHAHA i agree fully lai imm.. sigh .. i've had that for few years adi lor.. now kinda used to it adi .. havent perfected the art of avoiding it yet. But i'm a competent user of the art adi hahaha!!
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